sex v. death, machine v. man, man v. woman, woman v. your mother
"It doesn’t matter what’s fair. What matters is that if you do this it will destroy you. It won’t just hurt you, it will destroy you. If not doing this will destroy your boyfriend, the two of you are incompatible. You don’t want him destroyed and he should not want you destroyed. It might be the case that you two have to leave each other because you love each other. But you cannot allow yourself to be destroyed in order to save him from destruction."
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